If we were told.....

Life would be so wonderful if we were told to..... 

On the off chance if we were appreciated to put ourselves first. 

If we were valued to do what we are keen on . 

If we were informed that confidence ought to be our primary goal. 

 If we were randomly told that doing things we like is what makes us human.

But being the way we are is what self love is though these things were never a piece of cake as it seems like so the people and their social stigmas. 

We were never taught to love ourselves first or to make self love as our priority because this is what we all have been through.....Right??

We were constantly interrogated regarding whom do we love more and the alternative was as common mother or father, it was never about ourselves. Since childhood we have heard and perused a great deal about the romantic tales where two love one another and how they battled for their adoration till the end or fantasies where pixies were represented as a defender, sweetheart and the person who cares about us.

It was never about how to be protect, love and to take care of ourselves. 

 Doesn't it appears to be so impolite as though it is the reality where everything went wrong. We as a whole have been reprimanded for doing botches and for getting injured. 

As we all gone through a lot in our life and i know many hate themselves as well due to some of their past traumas but i think we should love ourselves first not because it's essential but if we don't embrace our flaws then who else will. We can't expect from others to embrace our flaws or to make our life happier until we don't try to make ourselves happy. 

It would be a lot easier to find ecstasy in life, if we start adoring and following our own energy. 

Whatever you will attract is what you will become.